Over recent years, cuckolding and hotwifing have seen a rise in popularity among couples looking to explore new dimensions of intimacy and deepen their connection. These practices—where one partner engages in sexual activity with others while the other partner watches or supports—have come to...
6 Tips for a Successful Threesome
While threesomes may spark fantasy, navigating them in reality can be complex. If you or your partner are considering this, take time to communicate openly. Selecting the right third person is crucial for a positive experience. Express your desires clearly. Different challenges arise depending on...
What it is and How to Use it
Lube isn't just about adding fun and excitement to your intimate moments - it's a crucial component for safe and pleasurable sex. Whether you're exploring textures, sensations, or flavours, lube can enhance your experience while reducing the risk of tearing and injury, particularly during anal or...
My first lesbian sex
First time lesbian sex can be really bloody overwhelming and daunting. And that can come before or after you figure out whether you're gay, lesbian, bisexual or pansexual. So we got in touch with 7 SpicyMatch female members who have kindly shared what the stories of what their first lesbian...
Secrets to Amazing Shower Sex
Shower sex often seems more alluring in imagination than in reality—more steamy fantasy than comfortable reality. However, according to our resident SpicyMatch sex therapist, achieving truly great shower sex is entirely feasible. If it's been a while since your last attempt, we suggest giving it...
How do you give a hand job?
As with any sex act or position, there are all kinds of ways one can go about doing hand stuff. Here is a guide to giving the best hand jobs!1. Make eye contact. It doesn't matter what type of sex you're having—eye contact is like an all-encompassing sexual secret weapon. Checking in with your...
Getting started with Anal sex
Numerous initial encounters with anal sex are either accidental or inadequately prepared, often resulting in a negative first impression of anal-related activities. Many couples shy away from discussing anal play, and as individuals, we tend to dismiss it hastily, particularly if prior experiences...
Does size matter?
Indeed, there are individuals, both women and men, who prioritize larger-than-average penises, identifying as size queens. However, I'm addressing the broader spectrum of women worldwide, whose preferences differ. You know those clichés about "it's not the size of the boat but the motion in the...
Performance Anxiety - Fact or Fiction?
Performance anxiety is a prevalent concern among couples new to the swinging lifestyle, often overshadowing the excitement of exploration and threatening to disrupt sexual focus. At lifestyle events, it's common for male partners to timidly inquire about the validity of rumors surrounding...
Let’s talk about the Bisexual man stigma in the Lifestyle
Here at SpicyMatch, we've been noticing something interesting brewing in the swingers community lately – more chatter about bisexual men. It's got us thinking: why not open up the floor and have a chat about it? Let's share some thoughts from our perspective.Now, while society's making strides in...